Podcast Update

After scaling a VERY steep learning curve I have finally reached the final stage of getting my podcast launched: pending approval with iTunes and Google Play Music. Once I start getting paid in the fall, I will upgrade my website so that the podcast will automatically post here as well for your listening pleasure. It will also be available on Facebook and Twitter, and anywhere else I can get it, honestly.

Square Logo Podcast

If you had asked me 5 years ago whether I would basically have my own radio show I would have said you were crazy. Now it’s basically all I can think about and I can’t wait to start posting episodes! The plan is for 20-30 minutes to start, and episodes will go up weekly on Wednesdays to take the place of my “On Podcasts” series. I have some interviews lined up with authors releasing new books starting in September and I have some advance reader copies for August, September, and October to give you the heads up on new releases!

It’s happening! OMG!

Eleanor and Park

eleanor and park

She tells her friend to have her parent call to ask if she can come over. If she asks them herself they will say no. It’s more difficult to say no to another adult. They might ask why. Appearances must be kept. They would rather she be at home so they can control her and their secrets, but appearances are more important.


The boy smells her period on her. Her father wouldn’t let her shower that morning, she has to shower before he leaves for work, even though there is a full half hour after he leaves before the bus comes, and she was too tired to get up in time. If her father discovers she did shower there will be consequences. The boy offers to let her shower at his house before he gives her a ride home from school. She is embarrassed and shamed, but thankful.


She falls asleep in every class that day. They kept her up yelling; she wasn’t allowed to go to bed until they were finished with her. Maybe she loaded the dishwasher wrong, maybe she said the wrong thing, maybe the counters weren’t clean enough, maybe they were just in a fighting mood. Her friends share their notes with her.


He drags her down the hall by her hair. He wants her in the livingroom so that he can have the luxury of looking at her. Family time.


Her anger overflows and she slams her bedroom door. They remove it and do not replace it with a curtain. She has to change in the bathroom. She can’t remember how long it lasts.


She forgets to feed her parakeets. The cage isn’t clean as often as it should be. Her mother is tired of doing it for her. Opens the window in the winter and sets the cage in the snowy flower box and closes it, saying if she won’t take care of them, we might as well kill them.


Belts. Wooden spoons. Slaps across the face. Grabbed arms and hair. Old time discipline.


The scavenging, the hiding, the tip-toeing, the smells, the poverty, the hunger, the fear, the exhaustion – and then the sense of failure and helplessness when you get away but have to leave others behind.

Something I need you to understand about this book is the importance of recognizing the signs of a strained or abusive home-life. This is not a love story, this is a suspenseful thriller and as you read you wonder if Eleanor will escape before she is raped or killed. Will someone notice in time? Will people help? And probably most important of all – remember that sometimes these situations wear you down so that there isn’t anything left to free, that it’s easier just to stay. Safer even. 

This book hit me right in the heart. The things you have to keep hidden, the appearances that have to be maintained so that the people around you don’t shame you, ostracize you, or possibly try to help you. Sometimes the help is more dangerous than the shame and ridicule. If you are going to help, you had better be ready to go all the way. Half-measures may be more harmful than doing nothing at all.

Kindness is important. Acceptance is important. Help and protection are important. Look around you, you can recognize the signs even if that person or child is working so hard to hide them. Give them a comic book. Give them batteries so they can listen to music all night long. Give them access to a shower. To food. To safety. To love.

This book is about surviving, and about how kindness is the light that can guide someone to safety. Please go read this book, it is essential.

Casper Pillow: The Unboxing

As a part of BlogHer17 I participated in the sponsor special event of speed dating. One of the brands that was there was the company Casper, who specializes in mattresses but also has sheets, pillows, and even pet beds available! Once we had our 90 seconds together, I was offered a card with a beautiful pin and a coupon code for a free pillow!

I ordered the pillow last Saturday and it arrived today. That’s pretty fast shipping, and there were faster options available.


The inside of the box was absolutely beautiful, and the pillow was wrapped in a soft plastic bag. An envelope with information about the pillow, its care, and the company was also included.

The pillow itself is substantial. It is heavier than you might think, but it is basically two pillows in one. It has give on the outside like a hotel pillow, but firmness on the inside like a strong foam pillow. Usually I have to use two pillows to get the support I need as a side sleeper. The one Casper Pillow appears to have the same size and heft as those two pillows put together.

Casper Pillow

I have the pillow on my bed and plan to track my sleep and comfort over the next 100 days, the period in which Casper allows customers to try their products with the option to return for a full refund if they are not satisfied. I’ll check in in a week (7 days), a month (30 days) 2 months (60 days), and at the 100 day mark to show how the pillow works over time and whether it holds up and provides comfort.

The pillow is available HERE and retails for $55. I did receive mine free but if I like it I can honestly say I would be willing to invest in a second one for my husband. I look forward to checking in in a week’s time to let you know how it’s going!

Check out Casper on Twitter (their presence is pretty amusing and encourages lots of naps!) and Instagram.

Winter (Lunar Chronicles #4)


Cinder (#1)
Scarlet (#2)
Cress (#3)

I have really enjoyed this series. It grounds itself in familiar fairy tales and then reaches into new territory that is terrifying, political, and romantic. In Winter, we take a closer look into the inner workings of Luna, and learn about the almost Hunger Games-like set up of the moon (sans actual Hunger Games). We have the central city (a la the Capital) and outer sectors that do different things like mining, farming, lumber, etc (i.e. districts).

The aristocrats that live in Artemisia dress really weird and use their powers/glamours to be as beautiful and stylish as possible, while the people in the outer sectors struggle to get by and are forced to watch propaganda-ish videos every day projected in by the queen. Now that I’m writing it down, it sounds exactly like the Hunger Games societal makeup, right down to the trains and tunnel systems that connect the sectors/districts. Hmmm…weird.

The setting is interesting and compelling, but the story lost me on this book. They have captured the Emperor, everyone is paired off and loves each other, Wolf is still mourning the kidnapping of Scarlet (who is being held in Winter’s menagerie on Luna), and Thorne and Cress have this “will they or won’t they” vibe that is obviously going to result in “will they.” So we have all the love stories going on, and at the same time we have Cinder trying to get to Luna to start an uprising now that she understands that she is the long lost Princess Selene that Queen Levana tried to have killed years ago. They get onto Luna hidden in the Emperor’s ship because the wedding has been moved there.

If that paragraph is confusing and muddled, you get how reading the book felt. You’re keeping track of the love stories, the political stories, the past, the present, the new culture on Luna – all while holding your breath to see if Cinder can pull it all off. The best part of this book is the conclusion. I could see how some might see it as anti-climactic, but I would let you know that it happens in a very realistic way.

The ending scenes are rather gruesome, and I appreciate that Meyer wrote the riot and war scenes without holding back. The realism of how an uprising like this might actually take place, and the consequences involved really pump up the suspense and should spark conversations with young people about dictatorships and society in general.  It’s basically the Hunger Games uprising on the moon, so if you liked Mockingjay you’ll like this book.

This wasn’t the best book of the four, but you have to read it to get to the intense, amazing, suddenly kind of half-satisfying ending, so go get you some.

Recommendation Game!

Here is a list of types of books. This is possibly 33 recommendations that would help us all find exciting books to read. Read the list, then include the number and recommendation in the comments. I’ll even include some of your suggestions in a future blog post alongside my own recs!

1. A book recommended by a librarian- (so you have to be librarian, and any book will do)

2. A book of letters

3. An audiobook

4. A book by a person of color

5. A book with one of the four seasons in the title

6. A book that is a story within a story

7. A book with multiple authors

8. An espionage thriller

9. A book with a cat on the cover

10. A book by an author who uses a pseudonym

11. A bestseller

12. A book about or by a person who has a diasbility

13. A book involving travel

14. A book with a subtitle

15. A book that’s published in 2017

16. A book about food

17. A book with career advice

18. A book from a non-human perspective

19. A steampunk novel

20. A book with a red spine

21. A book set in the wilderness

22. A book by an author from any country that isn’t the US

23. A book with a title that’s a character’s name

24. A novel set during wartime

25. A book with an unreliable narrator

26. A book with pictures

27. A book where the main character isn’t white

28. A book about an interesting woman

29. A book set in two different time periods

30. A book with a month or day of the week in the title

31. A book set in a hotel

32. A book that is becoming a movie in 2017

33. A book set around a holiday that isn’t Xmas

BlogHer17 – Conference Thoughts

I’m sitting in a Hilton Garden Inn at the moment because my AC went out one day back from BlogHer at the Hilton Orlando Bonnet Creek and so I figured now was as good a time as ever to briefly go over my experience. If you are interested in seeing some of my pictures from the conference, you can visit me on instagram here:


1. The Hotel

The Hilton Orlando Bonnet Creek was absolutely spectacular. My room was large and clean and smelled nice and had a gorgeous view of the nature preserves. A common complaint from other attendees was that the food was expensive at the hotel and parking was exorbitant ($27 self park/$35 valet per day) but I feel like unless you booked very close to the conference, you would have had time to plan for this. Also…it’s a Hilton that is near theme parks. They’re gonna get you for stuff, but complaining isn’t going to change the nature of the beast. 

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The pool looked so amazing and had a lazy river that you could just float around in, but I was either so busy or so tired that I never made it down there. And I brought my sassy bikini too! I did enter a contest to win a two night stay there, so hopefully I will win and I can go for leisure and relax by the pool. There were several restaurants to choose from and since the Hilton was attached to the Waldorf via the conference rooms you had the option to go there to eat/use the pool too. 

13/10 would hotel again.

2. The Conference Food

In the days since the conference ended I have seen many complaints about the food provided by the conference. Buying a full conference pass earned you access to breakfast and lunch on Friday and Saturday, leaving dinner to be scrounged. I went down for breakfast on Saturday and found fruit and croissants and that earned a big fat NOPE from me. Lunch on Saturday was provided by Disney Studios’ Pandora and was AMAZING. I was also pretty hungry from not having breakfast so I enjoyed every bit (see above). 

I didn’t mind getting my own dinner. I think it offered people a chance to network, connect, visit, or to be alone when the rest of the day was filled with other obligations. I got room service Friday night, and a sandwich from the hotel store in the lobby on Saturday night. Since I only had to drive, I also brought my own snacks with me.

I feel very strongly that breakfast could be vastly improved. Throw a hot thing of scrambled eggs and bacon in there and it would have rounded things out nicely. I don’t need a waffle bar or anything super crazy, but the lack of hot options was really off putting.

3. The Expo Hall


I was told time and time again that it didn’t matter how small you were, how new you were, that brands were there to meet you and connect and even small blogs had a chance at making a partnership. The Expo, where brands had booths set up for their company, was the place for that to happen. I was also under the impression that there would be samples that we could take home and write posts about as sort of auditions to write posts for the brand. 

I came home with a lot of…well…literature? And junk? I don’t want that to sound negative even though it does, but really it was a lot of sales as opposed to partnership conversations. I put my name in to become a member of the Medieval Times and Best Buy blogger networks but I’m not sure how those translate to $$$.

The one booth I stopped at that felt like it would fit really well was with Day Owl Rose’. The lovely marketing representative introduced me to their partner brand line39, which attempts to partner wines with experiences. If you click the link to go to their site, you’ll notice that they are currently pairing wines with the perfect weekend. We talked about pairing wines with books and a campaign that might show how that works with different kinds of characters, plots, etc. I hope that turns into something because it feels really interesting and natural – drinking wine while reading a book is like peas and carrots!

4. The Educational Sessions

Right here is my biggest regret from the conference. I should have gone to as many educational sessions as I could fit my body into. I chose two to attend – How to Create Multiple Online Income Streams and How to Start/Make a Podcast. Both were the most relevant to where I am right now and I have copious notes from both that I am going to put to use in the latter half of this year. (Podcast launching in July!) There were other sessions I should have gone to as well: How to Boost Facebook Traffic, Using SEO Strategies, and more that would just be ways to get more eyes on my content. When I go next year, I’m going to make it an educational endeavor and not so much about…

5. …Special Events

Because I was under the impression that no matter how small, blogs would be considered for sponsors and branding and partnerships, I worked very hard to get into special events to make an impression and to learn more about the brands. I participated in AM yoga with Florida Citrus Growers, an evening hosted event with Medieval Times, and a late-morning speed dating session with 6 brands: Disney, Medieval Times, Casper, Common Sense Media, Gumdrop (Goodshop), and KissAway Wipes. 

While fun, I don’t think participating in these improved my chances at a partnership, and very little chance for Q & A existed. When I go next year I think I will bypass these altogether in favor of the educational sessions and…

6. …Keynotes!

I was on the go go go! so much that I didn’t really have the opportunity to sit long enough to enjoy the keynote speeches. I wish I could have heard Luvvie Ajayi, Serena Williams, and Carla Hall. Chelsea Clinton was there too! I think at my next conference I want more time for education and inspiration. I did run into Luvvie near the elevators, and it was so sudden and I was so thankful she agreed to take a selfie with my sweaty post-Medieval Times self.


Overall it was a great time, and I am already waiting to see where it will be held next year so I can take advantage of early bird pricing and book accommodations! I want a second chance to do it right. 🙂 For now though, I’m going to get my podcast started, continue to provide great content here on the blog, and keep growing!


Happee Birthday Harry

HP cake

The onslaught of Harry Potter posts today after my Harry Potter weekend informed me that it is the 20th anniversary of the release of HP and the Sorcerer’s Stone. I am not sure how I managed to miss these books until I was in college, but they’ve been around since 1997. I was 14 then and I’m only a little upset that I didn’t have these books in high school because I needed as much magic as I could get to survive that period of time. But I digress…

To know me is to know that I absolutely love Harry Potter. I re-read the books about once a year, and one of the Christmas requests that I’m most proud of is that I held out until all the movies were done to ask for the box set. The only thing I have asked for this year is to go to Harry Potter World at Universal Orlando, where I plan to buy everything.


There was a MySpace era survey going around Facebook and I thought it would be fun to go through and give my answers.

1. Favorite Character? This one is a three way tie between Luna Lovegood, Neville Longbottom, and Molly Weasley
2. Character you relate to the most, or are the most like? Another tie: Minerva McGonagall and Molly Weasley
3. Hogwarts House? Gryffindor (I’m sorted here on Pottermore and my patronus is a Newfoundland)
4. Hogwarts House you thought you were in when you were younger: Ravenclaw
5. Favorite Hogwarts Teacher: McGonagall
6. Favorite Common Room: Gryffindor
7. Least favorite character/ character you hate: Lucius Malfoy
8. Favorite movie Harry (which year?): Deathly Hallows Pt2
9. Favorite movie Ron: Half-Blood Prince
10. Favorite movie Hermione: Prisoner of Azkaban
11. Underappreciated character? Dobby the House Elf (in the movies)
12. Overappreciated character? I don’t think there is one. 
13. Favorite place explored in the books? The Forbidden Forest
14. Where do you wish they explored more in the books? The other houses’ common rooms and spaces.
15. Which cast member is the most like their character? Maggie Smith
16. Would you have brought cat, owl, or a toad? A cat (also, how come Ron gets to bring a rat? That is clearly not on the list.)
17. Favorite film? Half-Blood Prince
18. Least favorite film? Chamber of Secrets
19. Favorite book? Deathly Hallows
20. Least favorite book? Chamber of Secrets

I’m off to finish up the Lunar Chronicles and some Rainbow Rowell novels. Mischief managed. 🙂